A little rant

 

Nowhere does it say, in any article or definition,

That pain is necessarily required.

Bdsm has gotten quite a bad rap,

But it has gained increasing popularity.

There are many different takes on the meaning,

But none of them are strict, unable to be changed.

The subcategories and fetishes associated with bdsm

Do not follow some “rulebook” and are subject to interpretation.

You can be into multiple different subcategories,

Or you could simply be into “light bdsm”

And only partake in a little “light domination”:

Some ropes, maybe a love bite, a slight spanking…

But nowhere does it say that you can’t put your own spin,

Your own take, your own spices, into the mix.

There is hardcore bdsm, and some less scary stuff.

Some prefer the darker side, but some find it too intimidating.

If anyone tries to tell you how to run your relationship

Or what to call and be called by your partner,

They are wrong and you have no obligation to listen.

Bdsm is not just one meaning, one interpretation:

It is a wide variety, a huge spectrum.

No one has any right to lecture you

Or to dictate how you define romance.

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